The laughter and wisdom of Dr. Ruth or simply about the complex
I remember her infectious laugh and subtle humor when she spoke simply about difficult things - namely sex - on television. I will never forget, although it was 30 years ago: shortly after my arrival in New York, together with my mother Lagunova Sofia Isaakovna, who was a dermatovenerologist in Ukraine for 40 years, we saw Dr. Ruth’s program for the first time and could not believe that Such topics can be discussed on TV. We started laughing so hard when Dr. Ruth showed the two dolls and what they were supposed to do. Conversations about sex, in which Doctor Ruth openly explained and advised, revealing the secrets of full-fledged sexual relationships, were something new for those who had just arrived from Ukraine. And we were surprised that, although we didn’t know English perfectly, we understood everything. Ruth Westheimer has written more than 40 books and hosted popular radio and television programs answering questions from viewers. For many decades, she has helped people solve problems related to sexual dysfunctions and problems. Silver Sex is one of Ruth Westheimer's latest books. It talks about sex in old age. According to the author, she wanted to eradicate prejudices that a harmonious sex life is possible only in youth. In her opinion, in all countries, men and women in love relationships experience the same problems, the main one of which is the routine of everyday life. Dr. Ruth was very cheerful, never discouraged. “Apparently, that’s why I live so long,” the sex therapist said, laughing. “Enliven your relationships, add variety to your life, and if it doesn’t work out, don’t be afraid to seek help from professionals,” Dr. Ruth urged. About 10 years ago, I met Ruth Westheimer at the Museum of Jewish Heritage at a Hanukkah event hosted by Michael Bloomberg. I still have photographs of me and Dr. Ruth captured by my dear teacher, of blessed memory, Mikhail Fishbein. About a year before the pandemic, Ruth Westheimer marched in the Israel Salute parade down 5th Avenue alongside people who truly knew what the Holocaust was. How hard it was for her, Ruth Westheimer, a little orphan, during the Second World War! The mother managed to send Ruth to Switzerland in 1939, after the girl’s father was arrested by the Nazis and deported to Buchenwald. Her parents died during the Holocaust. Upon learning of this in 1945, Ruth decided to travel to Palestine, where she joined the Haganah organization, trained as a sniper, and was seriously wounded in the leg during the War of Independence. Since 1950, she studied psychology at the Sorbonne in Paris, then taught there. In 1956, thanks to a scholarship for Holocaust survivors, she immigrated to the United States, where she received a master's degree in sociology and a doctorate in humanities from Teachers College, Columbia University. She later completed her work on the basics of sexology at New York-Presbyterian Hospital. In the USA she received an excellent education and became a member of the New York Academy of Medicine. She also worked as a professor at New York University and taught sexuality education seminars at Yale University. Much more will be written about Dr. Ruth, a world-renowned sex therapist. She was wise and an inspiration to many. She lived to be 96 years old. The fond memory of Dr. Ruth and her smile will remain in the hearts of many people for a long, long time! Marina Lagunova
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Silk Road Festival in New York - a triumph of culture and unity For several years now, like many others, I have been looking forward to the Silk Road Festival with particular anticipation. It is organized by a tireless, bright female leader, an outstanding teacher, Alena Badalova, who heads the My Way children's cultural and educational center. This is not just an event - it is a real spiritual holiday that promotes mutual enrichment, spiritual unity and reveals the dazzling palette of cultures of our multinational New York - a beacon of multiculturalism and creativity. The festival reflects the essence of My Way Center's mission - to provide an opportunity for self-expression, creativity, intercultural dialogue - and is a beacon of humanism, respect and cooperation. Despite the serious challenges that preceded the festival, it still took place with triumph. Several months before the event, a building next to the center caught fire, classes were cancelled, and one of the invited groups from California got into a car accident and ended up in the hospital. However, having overcome all the difficulties, the artists took to the stage and amazed the audience with their heartfelt number dedicated to Azerbaijan, causing a storm of applause at the Oceana Theatre. And against all odds, on June 1, 2025, Center My Way organized a grand festival "Silk Road", which became a real ode to the historical and cultural greatness of the ancient trade route that connected East and West, and the route served for centuries for exchange - not only of goods, but also of ideas, art, beliefs, philosophy. An impressive mosaic of national cultures unfolded on the theater stage. Cultural gems from countries such as Azerbaijan, Georgia, Kalmykia, Buryatia, India, Mongolia, Turkey and others were presented - all those whose history is intertwined with the history of the legendary Silk Road. Showing mutual respect and pride in their heritage, the festival encourages the younger generation to explore the world through the lens of art, history and universal human values. I would like to express special gratitude to the director Alena Badalova and the art director, the famous artist and sculptor Emin Guliyev. Their inexhaustible energy, professionalism and love for children fill this project with life. The creativity and success of the students of Emin Guliyev's art studio have been followed with admiration on social networks for many years. Together with dedicated employees, volunteers and leaders of musical and dance groups, they created a truly magical atmosphere, giving children a chance to perform on the professional stage of the American theater Oceana. I would also like to mention many other leaders of musical groups. These are professional dancers, ballerinas and just beauties, for example, Irina, the head of Irina Dancing Studia and others, from whom it was impossible to take your eyes off. And the way the children performed, there are simply no words! And can you imagine what it is like to bring dozens of child dancers on stage who danced together with professionals? Many children have grown up before my eyes, and I rejoice in their successes as in the victories of my child. I often see the performance of children from the My Way center at various events in the city, and this is always the highlight of the event. And it is not surprising that the efforts of Alena Badalova and the center's staff were recognized with honorary certificates and gratitude from public and political figures: from Assemblymen William Colton, Alec Brooke-Krasny, Senator Stephen Chen, which was presented by the Senator's chief adviser Ari Kagan, on behalf of the Mayor of New York Eric L. Adams, which was presented by the Assistant Commissioner for the Department of Arts and Culture of New York Kendal Henry, and from other government representatives who honored the organizers for their contribution to the development of culture and the education of the younger generation - and, believe me, each certificate is recognition of service to people. Also, the famous lawyer Eva Rakhamimova was awarded an honorary certificate for charitable activities, and it is worth noting that many city events took place thanks to her support. In an interview, Alena Badalova said: “I would like to express my heartfelt gratitude to the New York City Department of Cultural Afairs in partnership with the City Council, the New York State Council on the Arts with the support of the Office of the Governor and New York State Legislature, New York City Mayor Eric L. Adams, The State Committee on Work with Diaspora of the Republic of Azerbaijan, Permanent Mission of Azerbaijan to the United Nations, Diana Bagrationi Foundation, Buryad Mongol United Association, Darina Sanzhieva, Law Office of Yeva Rakhamimov and Oceana Theater. It is their generous support and grant that have made this event possible, enabling us to continue this cherished tradition." Marina Lagunova
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